Hey, if you didn’t hear, I’m getting married
October 23rd, 2008
Holy crap.
It’ll be in March. I’m assuming most Michiganders won’t come but will send their best, so if you are one, no worries about not being able to afford a plane ticket and hotel stay and stuff.
We understand. However, I will be sending out invitations to some Michiganders just in case some of them are crazy enough to come down.
So, we’ll be getting married some time in March… probably the 21st, but we’re not 100% sure. More information soon.
If you have any tips, tricks, connections on how to get married in Gainesville without spending a million dollars… especially if it’s still with a classy wedding and a bojillion people… I’d love your help.
Also, I plan to take full advantage of every offer for help, so don’t make it unless you mean it.
Finally, the engagement story (because you know you were going to ask):
A few years ago, when we were dating the first time, I created a meal for her (Chicken and Broccoli with a cream sauce over spaghetti) that she absolutely loved, and has been asking for since. So, I cooked that meal for her and served it along with some de-alcoholized wine (didn’t want our senses to be at all impaired for this special moment). She showed up to my house and the food was set out and a mix tape I made her a few years ago for Valentine’s Day was playing.
After the meal, I told her I was taking her somewhere for dessert, so we got in the car and drove over to a park/playground behind her old dorm (Beaty). I had her sit down at a picnic table and close her eyse, and I told her I was setting out dessert. I did set out dessert, but the dessert bag also had the ring box in it. I kneeled down and opened the box, and then told her to look at me. She said, “Wait, where are you? My eyes are closed!” She found me eventually, and I told her to open her eyes. After she took a second to take in the scene, I asked her to marry me.
There was lots of crying and “I love you”’s, but I think at some point she said “yes,” and I know that eventually she let me actually put the ring on her finger. Then we called people until both of our phones died; I freaked out because we hadn’t called everyone, and then we just gave up and put it on Facebook and prayed no one would get too upset.
That’s it! I’ll keep you updated here. ![]()


October 23rd, 2008 at 12:31 pm
marraige is what bwings us togewfah today…
there’s a book called “cheap ways to tie the knot” that you can get used on amazon for like 5 bucks. we found some helpful pointers in there but gave our copy away.
our biggest $ saver was to use an ipod rather than dj/band and just have a friend do the transitions between eating/dancing/cutting cake etc.
we also went DIY on all the invites, programs, decorations.
if you’re going to feed people either do a potluck (backed up by some catered food) or just pay…don’t skimp - people will remember being full!
i think that’s it for now. mozel tov.
October 23rd, 2008 at 8:36 pm
sara and steve did a pretty good wedding for less than 1000.00 talk to her
October 24th, 2008 at 1:49 pm
wow!!! congrats Matt!
October 30th, 2008 at 8:22 pm
Congrats Matt!! That’s great news!!